1. Don’t be afraid to ask to use sex toys, especially ones that
you’re comfortable with, like that trusty vibrator that always gets you
off. Don’t be afraid that your guy will get offended. If he can have an
awesome orgasm, don’t you deserve to as well?
2. Ask him where he plans on coming. I know this doesn’t feel that
romantic and can be a little bit awkward to approach, but it’s better
than having an impromptu on-the-middle-of-your-back situation that makes
you feel sticky and not so good. If there’s somewhere you prefer other
than inside the condom, definitely let him know beforehand.
